When you fall in love with a toxic person, you realize that you have something in common. You both want the same person that is, him. It is true that when you are in that relationship you are not able to see its real effect on you, but when you end up with it and start another relationship with a good person you get to see what you really deserved all this time.
10 Things that happen when you meet a good man after a bad relationship
1- Work confidence
Your last relationship was in an unstable terrain of intense emotions where you were the culprit of everything. Everything happened because of you and you did not trust what I was telling you . However, now everything is different. Your new kid has a lot of patience and works to earn your trust.
2- He listens to you
In your previous relationship you only spoke of him and now you can talk about yourself with someone who listens to you, asks you questions and cares for you.
3- Consents you
You have found someone who has details with you because he wants to, that surprises you in dating and that reminds you of everything you are worth . Your expectations were low but you have realized that this new person treats you as you have always deserved.
4- He is positive and optimistic
Your previous partner was very negative and dramatic and was creating problems all the time. You are happy to find such a positive person that he makes you happy and that he does not create more problems than they can already arise alone.
5- Teaches you what real love is
You learn that no you must stop loving yourself to be able to love another person, that love is someone who is worry and enjoy your company.
6- Trust you
You have had a relationship in which trust is He has seen completely broken and now you wonder if this person will cheat you. However he trusts you and does not hesitate for a moment.
7- He is very kind
] Your old partner was not nice although sometimes he made up for the things he did wrong and that imbalance left you confused. In fact, you have noticed that a simple act of kindness is unknown to you.
8- He apologizes when he is wrong
You were used to asking for forgiveness even when you were not at fault . You were in a toxic relationship that you could not get out of. However, in this new relationship you get excited when you hear someone say "I was wrong". Someone who assumes his mistakes and apologizes.
9- He is humble
He does not boast about his achievements or has an ego. In fact he admires you for everything you do . However, for you it is a bit strange because before you were always the one who had to praise your partner.
10- Does not manipulate you
Your previous partner knew very well what to say to make you feel bad and used words like knives. This ends up transforming the other person, who ends up being controlled and manipulated . When you are in a normal relationship, you discover that people are not like that and that whoever loves you does not try to manipulate you.
It is true that the effect of a horrible previous relationship can impact on your relationship and your personality, but when you meet someone who is really worthwhile, you ask a lot of questions. Do not think you're weak. In fact, you need to be very strong to get away from a toxic person.
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